Do you have feelings for someone, but is currently being treated as “just a friend”? Sometimes that person acts like they have feelings for you too, but then they go around telling other people that “we’re just friends.” Your heart is breaking but you don’t know what to do. Don’t worry, here’s a little guide for you to find a way out of the friendzone.
- Don’t Let Them Treat You as a Girlfriend/Boyfriend
If you haven’t defined the relationship yet, don’t let them treat you as if you’re lover because they might take you for granted.
- Make Them Feel like They Want You
If you spend time with that person every day, they might not realize how important you are. So stay away from them for a while and let them miss you. Then there might be a chance that they will realize they want you too. Don’t stay away for too long though, or someone else will come and take them away.
- Ask Them out on a Date
They might reject you at first, but if you keep trying, eventually they might agree to go out on a romantic date with you.
Sometimes the person you like might not be aware of your feelings. Chances are, they might like you too. So just confess. You might just be able to start that long-lasting relationship you’ve always wanted. On the other hand, if they are aware of your feelings but still keep you in the friendzone, they just walk out. You deserve better than that.